If you are reading this right now, you're probably suffering from the loss of someone you love very much. I know you've lost your lover and I understand that the worst pain imaginable is having the person you love most will tell you that they want more.
The funny thing is that as you're sitting there, his heart feeling like it was ripped from his chest, people are saying things like ...
* You will get over it.
* He / She was not good for you.
* Pass (my personal favorite).
* It's his / her loss - you were too good for him / her.
What a load of rubbish! And all that, just to make you feel better. But, let's face it ...
... Nobody can say anything to make you feel better ... Except for me. Because I can tell you how to get your ex back!
I know exactly how you can get your ex back. Believe it or not, getting your ex is very easy to follow linear process, but also a counter-intuitive one.
We'll talk about this in a second, but, one thing I want to point out is that you'll find some amazing resources down at the bottom of this article.The genre-specific game plan completely to get your ex back is waiting. You owe it to yourself to take a look.
Okay, now let me give you some tips to put on the right track ...
1. Break contact. I'm serious. Reduce or, if possible, break any contact with your ex for about 3-4 weeks. This should be easy, right? ... Not really. This will be the most painful because they want to, it's likely to lose much and never stop wondering about what they are doing. Stop calling them, stop sending the emails, text messages or anything of that nature. One of the biggest mistakes people make after a break is what I call text message terrorism. I'm sure you know what this is, but, well, sure you do not realize that after a breakup, any text message, email or phone call can be too much for your ex.Since much they say they do not want more. At this point, it is best to agree with the breakup and be totally good thing.
2. Stop being needy. Always remember this: a hungry dog does not get fed! Nobody wants to be around a needy person. It is hard-wired into our brains to align with people who have a higher survival value and stay away from people in need. While it is possible to make your ex will take you back out of pity, not what we're trying to accomplish here. You want your ex attracted to you again, do not feel sorry for you.
3. Get your life back. Time to call your old friends that you've probably neglected lately. Do it now. Sign massive fun. Note that this is not a good feeling advice. Being happy on your own is very important if you want to attract people into your life, and, most importantly, to get your ex back. Therefore, make sure you put your life in order.
4. Start working out. When you exercise, endorphins are released in the body as well, you will feel much better. This will make it look better too, so you'll increase your confidence. Remember, trust is one of the most attractive features that can have (all dating tips I read - good or bad - including the cliché - the power of trust). However, the confidence comes with success, while just been dumped. It will not be easy, but do not worry too much. I will give you all the tools you need to succeed, so that confidence will happen automatically.
5. Contact your ex. If your ex does not contact you after 4 weeks, you can contact them and have a light conversation. There are some steps that you should do before you actually get in touch with your ex. You find them easily in the materials that I will give (check the resources at the bottom of this article). Avoid talking about your past relationship. Do not ask your ex if you're dating someone new and do not brag about the number of people who are sleeping with or dating (which is lame ... only losers brag). Just keep it light and avoid any argument. Also, stay cool and do not let him think you are desperate to see.
6. Make your next date with your ex emotionally charged. "What! So far! My ex does not even answer my calls!" ... I can hear and shout.But, fine. You will find a solution for every situation in the materials of the bottom of this article. I'll teach you how to make your ex return your phone calls and how to get another date. Well, that is actually the easiest part.
Now, let me explain what I mean by "emotional". If you are planning to do the old "dinner and movie" I have bad news for you ... Why? Because if you do, you lose on the following principle sociologically proven ...
Emotionally charged = Bond
This first scenario will not only be boring, but, also, it won’t create a bonding, or, in our case, a re-bonding experience. A better scenario could be a short roller coaster ride. Also, taking your ex on a few “mini-dates” could do wonders for your relationship. This creates “time distortion”, so, your ex will feel that they’ve been with you forever after only a short period of time.
This way, you will eventually get to spend more time together and you will have a chance to get them back, if you’re prepared and you know what to do.
Now listen carefully!
I don’t want to scare you, but, your ex is not going to be around forever…They will eventually go on to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them…They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex…so on and so forth…
There are two things you need to do to begin the process of making your ex want you again.
1. Follow the above steps
2. When you get to step 5: Contact Your Ex. learn how to Text Your Ex Back. Learn an amazingly simple way to get back on his/her mind and have your ex wanting you back with a few clicks of a button! I’d wish you luck but trust me, follow this program (as seen on Rachael Ray and many other chat shows) and you won’t need it!